Is it bad to have questions about your church?

For the Strength of Youth answers this one directly: “Having questions is not a sign of weakness or lack of faith. In fact, asking questions can help build faith. The Restoration of the gospel started when 14-year-old Joseph Smith asked questions with faith.” It invites youth to look for answers in the scriptures, the words of prophets, from leaders and faithful family, “and from God Himself.”

The Church’s guide “Answering Gospel Questions” adds that we “should not feel embarrassed or unworthy because we have questions or concerns,” and that answers come “on the Lord’s timetable.” It also draws a line: questions asked with faith lead to learning, but doubt by itself doesn’t create faith. Seeking “by study and also by faith” is what helps (D&C 88:118).

When an answer doesn’t come right away, Elder Jeffrey R. Holland’s advice is to “hold the ground you have already won, even if that ground is limited.” Keep living what you already know, keep studying, and talk with someone you trust. Seminary teaches exactly this: act in faith, look at the question with an eternal perspective, and use good sources.